There is something reassuring about standing for something, and knowing what we stand for.
For men and women who are true to themselves and to the virtues and standards they have
personally adopted, it is not difficult to be true to others.
{ Gordon B. Hinckley, standing for something }



Our Lazy Days ...

*NOTE: Don't click on any links in this post! We've got some kind of spyware issue or something that's inserting false links in my blog.  I didn't create any hyperlinks in this post, so none of the ones you'll see are legit.  Grrr ....

With what felt like a shortened summer after moving and settling in, we were too tired (and too poor!) to do anything real adventurous, so the rest of our summer we spent doing pretty laid-back, relaxed activities, like ...

  splashin' in the water table ... we've got some real water babies around here!

 ... runnin' through the sprinklers (while trying to save our scorched lawn!)

 and of course drinking plenty of hose water in the process! I wish I had gotten a picture, but Zach's favorite water activity was crawling into the middle of the sprinkler and literally sitting on it, or at least in the middle of the spray, gasping and acting shocked the whole time.  As soon as I'd "rescue" him, he'd crawl right back for more!

 ... training to be future Olympic trampolinists!
(with Mom and Dad watching Olympics late into the nights while indulging on summertime treats like homemade ice cream or fresh peach dessert!)

... hangin' in the back yard with bubbles, sidewalk chalk, the sandbox & swingset

 ... soaking up some hot summer sun and watching little ones' hair go blonde

 ... reading, reading, reading for Mr. Eliot, who can't get enough!  He's a spectacular little reader, and we are way excited about our new Lehi library, which has ... backpacks, just like the ones we loved in Salem!

 ... harvesting crops from our very own fruit trees and "garden" (read: crop of weeds with a few planter boxes of tomatoes and herbs ... sigh ... next year!).  Thanks to very little, if any, effort on our part, we did have oodles of blackberries for jamming and cobblers, and just enough peaches for a batch of fresh peach dessert!

... and biking!  Eliot now rides his own like a champ, and Z has the proper gear to ride behind Mommy in the bike trailer!  

Eliot with "Hootz" the owl at an Orem Owlz game.  

One thing we really enjoyed this year (but hardly got any pictures of!) was going on family outings to ball games, fun centers, and water parks.  We bought the "Pass of All Passes" that got us into Owlz Games, Seven Peaks in Provo, Trafalga Fun Centers, and a bunch of other venues.  We didn't use them as much as we had hoped, but having the pass did get us out and doing things together.  

We are a little reluctant to say goodbye to summer!  We're more than a little excited to have the heat and fire season cool down a bit, but it's always hard to say goodbye to relaxed schedules, sweet suntan lines on little feet and arms, the smell of sunscreen, snowcones, watermelon, and grilling.  In contrast to last summer, which was so consumed with our sweet newborn, I really feel like we got out and had a lot of fun this summer.  It was a good one.  With the start of preschool, music lessons, and football season this week, I think we can officially say goodbye to summer and welcome in the fall!  Looking forward to crunchy, colored leaves (we will have plenty of them!), soup on the menu, baking again (it has been way too hot!), jackets, perfect walking weather, BYU football (Eliot goes to his first one at LaVell Edwards stadium this year!!), and Halloween costumes.  Can't believe it's all here again!

Edwin's Tale


This is one of my favorite songs by local artist Peter Breinholt. I was introduced to "Pe-tah's" music by my sister when he was just a college kid starting out a band. I loved his folksy, happy-go-lucky style, and played my copied cassette of his first album over and over.  Now he's well known throughout the West, and his music is frequently featured on EFY and other LDS albums.

Over the years I've been to probably dozens of Peter concerts, everywhere from outdoor amphitheaters at Sundance and Thanksgiving Point, to cool Christmas venues like the Eccles Theater on the U of U campus.  Grant tolerates them, claiming "if you've seen one, you've seen them all." I don't care if he plays a lot of the old favorites, but I would argue that his music has only gotten better. More refined, more thoughtful, and he has started integrating beautiful media presentations like this one over the years.  This is by far my favorite, and makes me cry every single time.  It's all about the honor and struggle of a soldier.

Story goes, at least as far as I've been able to piece together from the bits Peter has shared over the years at his concert, that this song came to him on a plane ride, and once he had written it out, the feeling to came to him strongly that he should title it "Edwin's Tale, 1862." He jotted it down, not understanding why.  Some time later, he came across a photo while doing family history.  It was of an ancestor of his who fought as a young man (basically a boy) in the Civil War. Peter finally understood the meaning to this inspired song and its title when he learned the name of the boy in the picture (the one shown at the beginning and end of the slideshow) was Edwin, and the date the picture was taken, you guessed it, 1862.  It's an incredible story, and the song along with the slideshow give it full justice.

I was talking to Grant the other day and expressing why I feel it's so important to read stories about the Pioneers, the founding of our country, and of heroes old and modern. I feel like it gives me perspective. I feel like it makes my trials seem less difficult. I feel like it deepens my appreciation for the blessings I enjoy. I'm so grateful for talented writers and musicians who can put those feelings of appreciation into words when I feel inadequate to do so. This really is worth the watch.

Pioneer Day

We went to Lagoon with Grant's family on Pioneer Day and had a great time!  The first thing Grant's mom wanted to do when we got there was take Old West pictures in Pioneer Village.  It was a bit of an ordeal to get all of us dressed up and posed for the picture, but they turned out pretty fun!  The little kids are of course the cutest in the pictures!

 Traditional serious.
 Smiles.
Silly. 
I love this one of Eliot shooting the camera! Looks like Eliot's getting a little Lehi in his blood already! :)

Surprisingly, Lagoon was pretty slow for a holiday, and some cloud cover kept it from getting hot until the late afternoon (when we were ready to head out anyway).  And with so many aunties and grandparents eager to take the boys, we actually got to squeeze in some thrill rides. My favorite was Wicked, a roller coaster that shoots you straight up, then down right at the start, but I learned that any spinning-type rides do me in now ... I'm getting old!  My previous favorite made my head spin for hours after, so spending the rest of the day on kid duty and taking Eliot on his first daring rides (he was pretty adventurous!) was just right for me.  I loved seeing Eliot get his first taste of thrill and adventure.  He had a blast, which was really fun to watch.  It was so fun to sit next to him on his first roller coaster and water rides and hear him giggle the whole time.  Very fun way to spend Pioneer Day.

I have realized this year how much I really love Pioneer Day.  It always feels like such a perfect extension of the 4th of July because I get to spend the whole month focusing a little more than usual on the people who have sacrificed so much for my freedoms and the privileges that I enjoy.  I love singing patriotic and then pioneer songs throughout the month at church, thinking about my own pioneer ancestors, and doing simple things like watching Legacy on a Sunday afternoon to help me remember and reflect on those who made my life and the things I love possible.  This year I've had even more of a chance to ponder on the pioneers and think more deeply about what they endured as I've been listening to Gerald Lund's The Work and the Glory series.

A phrase that always comes to mind this time of year comes from a talk Sister Elaine S. Dalton gave years ago in general conference.  She was talking about an experience she had while visiting a pioneer cemetery, where, as she was marveling over the great price her ancestors paid to help establish the church in the latter days, the impression came to her, as though her relatives were speaking right to her on that holy spot, "We did this for you."  I love that.  That phrase evokes such a sweet feeling in me -- "We did this for you."  With all the fun and festivities that surround the 4th and 24th of July, I do always try to take a quiet moment to reflect on those wonderful, heroic people who did what they did, and to express my appreciation that, at least in part, they did it for me.

It Was a Pirate Parrrty!

With our June so jam-packed this year, Eliot's pirate party was delayed a few weeks, but well worth it to have the perfect venue for a pirate adventure filled with Pin the Patch on the Pirate, a treasure hunt, BBQ lunch, and of course cupcakes! We were so glad that so many of Eliot's cousins and friends could celebrate with us! Special thanks to my sister Mary for taking most of these photos while I led the kiddos on their hunt for buried treasure. We had a great time and just barely avoided a monsoon-season thunderstorm.
On our treasure hunt we found Polly, who needed a password ...
The crew (L to R): Madelyn, Reed, Weston, Emma, Eliot, Christian, Annie, Mikey
We hopscotched on one leg on Peg Leg's patio ...
We walked the plank and sent a message in a bottle ...
And finally found where X marked the spot!
We dug for buried treasure ...
    
And found our loot!
(Goodie bags with mini compasses & telescopes, ring pops, and chocolate coins)

Then it was a free-for-all in the sandbox while lunch cooked ...
And then a kids' favorites lunch of hot dogs, waternelon, chips, and drinks!
Thanks again to all of our friends for joining us on such a fun pirate adventure!

I Needed the Reminder ...

Remember this that I posted about right around the launch of my blog? Well, I have found myself in the midst of a lot of change once again (guess it really is inevitable), and I'll admit, I'm not feelin' so brave! I don't know how I forget so quickly how hard and awkward it is to the newbies. And I'm supposed to have my brave face on for my kids so that they'll feel okay about the change, and all I want to do is run back to what was comfortable! I need to remember all the times when change has brought not only growth but friendship, expanded horizons, new opportunities, accomplishment, and joy. I need to muster up my courage and get out of my comfort zone, allow myself to be a little (or maybe really) vulnerable, and be open to new experiences.

How do you cope with a move or other big changes in life?

4th of July Balloon Festival

Provo's Freedom Festival hot air balloon launch is one of our family's favorite traditions. We don't do it every year (new babies tend to make this momma unwilling to get up before 6 a.m.!), but we go every year we can. Grant and I even loaded up Eliot when he was just 9 days old so we could see them!  This year was no disappointment!  The sky was beautiful despite the fact that several wildfires were burning in the state at the time, including a major one in Alpine that broke out a couple days before.  It was a perfect morning for an early morning family adventure!

 Not my best photo of the balloons, but you can see the haze from the fires in the bottom of the photo.

 Since we like to go the day before the 4th, it was a work day for Grant, so he came all gussied up! As for the rest of us -- p.j.s for the boys, ball cap for mom!

 Aren't the skies picture perfect?!  And yea for ReMax! (Jorge, our real estate agent that helped us buy our house, worked there.)


 Zach may have had the best view of all. It was so fun to watch the the wonder (mixed with a fair amount of confusion) in his sleepy little eyes. So fun to see my little ones experience this for the first time!

And what is more American than a giant, cold bottle of Coke?!

After watching the balloon launch, we headed over to Provo Bakery to indulge in donuts and sweet rolls. We took our sugar-loaded breakfast to a nearby park, where we enjoyed the quiet of the morning and the gorgeous view of the sun coming up over Y mountain. We had a little time before Grant had to go to work, so we pushed the boys in the swings for a bit and had some peaceful, happy time as a family. It was perfect and made me so happy to enjoy that little moment together. My heart filled with joy that I get to live in a beautiful land where our freedoms allow us to have moments like that -- where we could enjoy a wonderful community celebration and time together as a family.  We live in a place that's clean, where we have beautifully cared for parks and places to enjoy as families. We have so many freedoms and comforts -- right down to donuts and chocolate milk -- and I'm so grateful for those who have served and continue to serve our country in order to preserve those rights.  I'm so grateful to Heavenly Father for allowing me to live here and to have the privilege of living in such a wonderful, wonderful country. I love the 4th, and I've gotta say, Provo celebrates it in an awesome way!

Month 'o Birthdays Part 3: Eliot's

We have a FIVE-year-old in our house!!  Say what?!
Eliot is seriously FIVE!!  I swear he was just born and we were heading off to law school.   But here he is,
my book-reading, bike-riding, adult-level conversationalist!  This year was the one that hit me hard that my little boy is a full-fledged KID.  He' s not a toddler with a baby face anymore.  He's a kid who'll be off to grade school sooner than I'm ready to admit! As much as I wish time wasn't passing so quickly, I have to say that Eliot has become SO much fun. This past year was such a fun age.  Three was rough on me, but four was so much more enjoyable. I can't wait to see what five brings!

For Eliot's birthday, we played in the boys' awesome new sandbox, made "cookie pops" (sugar cookies on popsicle sticks) for his preschool birthday treats the next day, met Daddy at Target to pick out his special big-boy present (see below), had a corndog dinner, and cake and ice cream with grandparents.  Presents included nice Sunday clothes from Nanny and Peppy, a Spiderman backpack and activities from Grandma and Grandpa, books and a new Trio superhero set from Mom and Dad. Not a bad day, I'd say!

This year was the year of the bike ...
 
 
Doesn't he look so cute?  And it warms my heart that that is OUR yard and driveway in the picture! We have an actual neighborhood for our kids to play in and ride bikes around.  I love it!

I wish you could see Zach in his wagon better, because I LOVE this picture.  That's Grandpa (Grant's dad) pulling Z in the wagon, with Eliot going for his first bike ride behind them. One of my favorite memories of Eliot's big day. Just a happy, fun way to end a birthday.
Eliot got to show off his new bike and new bike-riding skills the very next day at a preschool bike parade!  Perfect timing!

 The cake. Oh, the cake. Exactly what Eliot wanted ... sorta. For months (probably since his last birthday), Eliot has talked about this cake: a strawberry cake with pink frosting (can you tell most of his playmates this past year were girls?). All the more reason for me to be extra disappointed that this cake was a FLOP! I was in way too much of a hurry with everything I was trying to juggle, and it fell apart on me ... literally. The cake meltdown led to my own meltdown ... thank heaven kids are forgiving and cakes get sliced and eaten. For as much of a success as Zach's cake was, this was a total mess. BUT, to show what a sweet kid Eliot is, when I asked if he wanted me to buy him a new cake or just cut this one up and eat it, he said the one I made would be just fine. He never complained once, and seemed delighted with his pink cake ... crumbles and all. I love my Eliot and his gentle heart. Such a good kid.

Happy Birthday, Eliot!  My first babe. My oldest son.  My pure-hearted, people-loving, enthusiastic, energetic, bubbly, sensitive, spirited, social kid.  You are a gem.  You are funny, unique, full of life, loyal to your family, an awesome big brother, so obedient, so desirous to do what's right, so helpful, and so very kind. I'm so proud to be your mom. I love who you are. Your example is making me a better person.

Month 'o Birthdays Part 2: Zachary's First Birthday!

Our little Zachers turned ONE on June14!!  I can't believe how this year has flown by! I wish I could re-live it and take things a bit more slowly. I really feel like I was robbed of my infant. It all went so fast. I wish time would slow down. Hopefully this next year won't be so fast-paced (no major sleep deprivation, no house-hunting, no moves ... life's bound to be less stressful, right?!). 

With our move set for just two days after Z's big day, I made a point of taking time to enjoy Zachary and not fuss too much over everything that needed to get done.  I had a wonderful day soaking up my sweet one-year-old and his super-charming, all boy personality! We tried to do Zach's favorite things to celebrate his day: went for a walk, read books, ate yummy food.  We wanted to squeeze in a trip to the pool, but naps got off and the day got away from us ... another day!  Here are only SOME of the many sweet pictures I caught of my Flag Day baby!

 Zach's patriotic birthday makes the U.S. flag extra special to us!

 
 Happy brothers off for a birthday walk!

 In a crunch, butcher paper and markers made for festive wrapping paper!

 Eliot showing off the row of balloons he drew for his brother! He was so proud!

 Cheesy smiles = a sign of a happy birthday boy!

Unwrapping gifts from Nanny and Peppy (McEuen) and Grandma and Grandpa Dickinson ...
Gifts this year included a Fisher Price A-Z alphabet zoo from Mommy and Daddy, preppy Sunday outfits and a special book from Nanny and Peppy, a stuffed alligator, toy helicopter, and sand toys from Grandma and Grandpa.

Stripped down and ready for that first taste of ... CAKE!
Mm, mm!!  He loved the frosting, at least!

Eliot insisted on a carrot-applesauce cake for Zach, since that's what Whyatt makes for his baby sister's birthday on an episode of Superwhy.  I found a recipe online, and it tasted even better than it looked! That recipe's a keeper! (I may have to share in a later post ... it seriously was so moist and delicious!)

Snuggling my "Gator" toy with Grandma ("Gator" is her nickname for me).

We kept things pretty simple for Z's first birthday, but it was a happy, easygoing day, which I think matches his little personality perfectly. As I have been reflecting over the past year and my little Zachary, I would describe Zach as being a rascal, mischievous, sweet, fun, funny, energetic, good-natured, obsessed with his big bro, 100% boy, adorable, and determined. I love this little boy. He completely has me wrapped around his little finger. So many times he does something naughty, and I find myself struggling not to laugh because he is so darn cute, even when he frustrates me and pushes me to my absolute limits! He has brought such life and energy to our home. I especially love the amazing relationship between Zach and Eliot. They are absolutely best buddies and partners in crime, which surprised me because of the age gap between them.  
We love you, our Rascal Ree!